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Dec 17, 2023Liked by Tanja Boness

Oh dear, three and a half I think, but I am working on the half.

"As Freezing persons, recollect the Snow" - that is a cracking line, speaking as a warm person trying to imagine how a freezing person would recollect it, and knowing that when I was a freezing person I was aware I could never explain it to my warm self.

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Not to worry, every relationship is different and in the end it’s all about how you feel about it.

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Great insights Tanja and reminded me of your posts on narcissism. It’s sometimes possible to find yourself in a minefield with no map to get out!

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Thank you, Reuben, it is definitely related to narcissism, albeit you don’t necessarily need to be in a narcissistic relationship to be caught up in a trauma bond.

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